tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post5311053307550329477..comments2023-09-29T01:57:46.681-07:00Comments on The Wife Led Husband in Chastity: Thursdaykelmaghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07656157328136489658noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-37842331040750742522019-04-30T12:12:12.108-07:002019-04-30T12:12:12.108-07:00@anon32
It's damn hard to read your sh..
Soun...@anon32<br />It's damn hard to read your sh.. <br />Sounds like you're a real macho, really! <br /><br />As I said: you will never ever GET it, never! BeckysFootSlavehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13005520815865878716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-58188665683045612682018-07-07T21:38:37.422-07:002018-07-07T21:38:37.422-07:00Also: “I also knew that as soon as that moment of ...Also: “I also knew that as soon as that moment of intense arousal passed, I would be very happy that I was denied. It would mean I would continue to enjoy the best, most intense, closest, most intimate and most loving relationship I have ever had with my wife.”<br /><br />How? From your initial post both of you were responsible for the downfall of intimacy and sexual tension, none of you were satisfying each other’s needs.<br /><br />The obvious and logic solution is for BOTH to communicate and put some damn effort into recreating the bond, fulfilling the emotional and sexual needs of the other, and avoid shutting off the other like you were both doing.<br /><br />I get that now you have this chastity fetish, but that is a “solution” where only one party (you) does the fulfilling, and the other (the wife) only receives, even making a priority to deny fulfillment of your sexual pleasure.<br />That is not really a solution, that is just one party becoming the dominant, and the other acquiescing and being controlled.<br /><br />Why couldn’t you just put the damn effort you’re putting now without having to destroy equality and make one partner’s needs more important than the other?<br />Literally all you need to do is keep putting the effort to please her, and ideal she should ALSO put the effort to please you as well.<br /><br />Don’t try to sell what you’re doing as anything other than a fetish.<br /><br />Having a close intimate relation only requires effort and investment, you don’t need to put one partner’s needs above the other.Anon32https://www.blogger.com/profile/07054359685752487515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-31366635058725082522018-07-07T02:18:45.929-07:002018-07-07T02:18:45.929-07:00Seems like pretty vanilla sex, except for the last...Seems like pretty vanilla sex, except for the last part when the abusive little woman get off on denying a pleasure she herself received. That is something you do to a total stranger, not to someone you supposedly love.<br /><br />Seriously, what kind of man would ever love or be devoted to someone who clearly doesn’t think your pleasure is as important as her own? That is the surest way to feel resentment and lack of connection.<br />Throwing away equality in the relationship and making her control your body like this should not make a difference IF she holds your pleasure in the same regard you hold hers. It serves as a test, if my wife said I could deny her pleasure, the number of times I do that would remain the same, zero.<br /><br />Also it’s funny how you sold this sick and unequal lifestyle as a way to light the spark in your marriage, when ALL you ever do is just put some damn effort and try to please her in bet.<br /><br />Couldn’t you just put a damn effort before without this FLR nonsense?Anon32https://www.blogger.com/profile/07054359685752487515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-26219807502060921332012-10-09T10:12:38.750-07:002012-10-09T10:12:38.750-07:00I love reading your blog and posts. I am in a T&a...I love reading your blog and posts. I am in a T&D relationship with my wife as well although I am not in a chastity device. We use the honor system as I have agreed not to masturbate or come unless she says so. My denial periods have typically gone for 7-12 days and I experience similar feelings that you wrote about above. Specifically, when in the periods of intense teasing, I want/need to come, but I really want to be denied like you were as I know I will be grateful for it afterwards (the ongoing high is worth it). That being said, I do get to the point where I feel better coming than being denied and that is typically somewhere in the 7-12 day period.Tsememgbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06993620009436166422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-3826545030188144502012-09-27T22:27:34.832-07:002012-09-27T22:27:34.832-07:00the write up is erotic.. http://thegirlinthesexysa...the write up is erotic.. http://thegirlinthesexysarong.blogspot.in/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13901705257688587514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-13858926505054832182012-09-19T19:38:28.537-07:002012-09-19T19:38:28.537-07:00Thus, it appears, the jury is still out on this on...Thus, it appears, the jury is still out on this one!Locked Husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00066862164624960129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-11445773615955048382012-09-19T13:02:18.585-07:002012-09-19T13:02:18.585-07:00Great post. Think about how happy you would have b...Great post. Think about how happy you would have been 18 months ago to read into your own future blog and see how comfortable your wife has become with denying you. Plus now a part of you has to wonder how Thursday will even end - possibly another creative tease.<br />As for the dangers of not ejacualating for extended periods of time - research that I have read out of the Mayo Clinic do not support any dangers. It appears that studies on this out of the Mayo Clinic have determined that there are no harmful effects on the prostate as a result of ejaculation denial for long periods of time. The same studies showed that there are no beneficial effects on the prostate from frequently ejaculating as published in a recent issue of the Urology Jounal.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13335938325642556234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-2367983802909922542012-09-19T12:05:39.802-07:002012-09-19T12:05:39.802-07:00Harry and Biidahobear - Thanks for your comments. ...Harry and Biidahobear - Thanks for your comments. It was a "one of a kind" experience. The funny thing is - I don't know which is arousingly scarier - that she planned this monumental tease, or it just occurred to her spontaneously.kelmaghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07656157328136489658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-36551997655283907042012-09-19T04:48:19.165-07:002012-09-19T04:48:19.165-07:00If a woman were to make love to me as thoroughly a...If a woman were to make love to me as thoroughly and completely as She did to you that night, honestly, cumming would be the last thing on my mind. What a thrill it must have been to be such a part in Her pleasure! Just one caution, I've read that long-term denial can result in some health issues and that weekly milking is a good prevention. There is no pleasure for you and can be done while you are still caged.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068988987963884721.post-17692686874794100712012-09-18T20:50:58.911-07:002012-09-18T20:50:58.911-07:00Whew! Reading your post seemed to shrink my jailbi...Whew! Reading your post seemed to shrink my jailbird considerably, especially "Thursday"<br /><br />Great post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com